Fiona Phillips’ husband, Martin Frizell, has revealed the most heartbreaking moment yet in the beloved broadcasterâs battle with Alzheimerâs â the day she no longer recognised their son.
In a raw and emotional extract from Fionaâs upcoming memoir Remember When: My Life With Alzheimer’s, Martin recalls how Fiona, 64, became âterribly distressedâ after seeing their eldest son Nat in the kitchen â but had no idea who he was. ââWhoâs that man in the kitchen?â she asked me,â Martin wrote. ââThatâs Nat,â I said gently. âOur son. Heâs home for the weekend.ââ She wasnât even upset at the realisation. âShe was in such a state, she didnât even seem upset that she had asked the question,â Martin explained.
Nat, who was home from the Army, never found out about the incident, but Martin admitted he would have been âdevastated.â

Diagnosed in 2022 at just 61, Fionaâs condition has deeply shaken the family. Martin and Fiona feared at first that the illness was genetic and could affect their sons, Nathaniel, 26, and Mackenzie, 23. âWe did tackle one fear,â Martin said, describing how they went through genetic testing to check if Fiona carried the Alzheimerâs gene. Fortunately, the result was negative â a relief that their sons wouldnât inherit the disease. But the doctor still said Fiona was âpredisposedâ to it, a term Martin admits he still finds hard to understand.

As Fionaâs memory deteriorates, Martin says he and the boys are now experiencing a âliving griefâ â slowly saying goodbye to the âglittering starâ they once knew. âBit by bit, Alzheimerâs takes everything,â he wrote. âEven the most glamorous, glittering star â such as Fiona was â will be wiped away.â
Martin also opened up about the toll Fionaâs condition has taken on their marriage, especially before her diagnosis. Fiona admitted she became âmore and more disconnectedâ from her husband and children, at one point yelling during an argument, âIâm just worn out. Iâm tired â of everything.â Martin eventually told her he was moving out. âMaybe this â our marriage â is whatâs making you so tired,â he told her.

The couple, who married in Las Vegas in 1997, now face a very different life together. Martin, who recently stepped down as editor of ITVâs This Morning, has taken on full-time care duties. Fiona now needs help with almost everything â from brushing her teeth to washing her hair. âShe physically can do things, but she doesnât know how to anymore,â Martin explained. âI make her feel as safe as possible.â