Reality television star Heather Rae El Moussa touched fans’ hearts with an incredibly heartfelt tribute to her husband, Tarek El Moussa, as they celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary. The “Selling Sunset” alum shared an emotional message that perfectly captured the beautiful complexities of marriage and family life.
Taking to Instagram on October 23rd, the 38-year-old opened up about the journey she and Tarek have shared since saying “I do” in 2021. Her anniversary post reflected both the challenges and the joys that come with building a blended family.
Heather’s tribute showcased her appreciation for the man who has become not just her husband, but her greatest supporter and co-parent. The reality star has embraced her role as bonus mom to Tarek’s children from his previous marriage to Christina Haack.
The timing of her anniversary message also coincides with recent revelations about how the couple maintains their strong bond through intentional relationship work and open communication.

A Love That Continues to Bloom
In her touching Instagram post, Heather acknowledged the realities of married life while celebrating their beautiful partnership. “We’ve had such a full life together already,” she wrote. “Life can be hard, marriage can be hard. And I do know there will be ups and there will be downs but it is also so beautiful to be in this life with you as my partner.”
The former Netflix star emphasized how their relationship has centered around mutual growth and learning. She highlighted that “growing and learning” with Tarek has become the most fulfilling aspect of their marriage, as they work together to become “the best versions” of themselves.
Her anniversary message expressed deep gratitude for Tarek’s role in their family. “Thank you for inspiring me, guiding me, working SO hard for our family & loving us so deeply,” Heather wrote. “I love you!! Happy 4 year anniversary lovey. Me & You.”
The HGTV personality also shared the meaningful symbolism behind their fourth-anniversary milestone. “The fourth anniversary, symbolized by fruit and flowers, celebrates love that’s fully bloomed and begun to bear sweet fruit,” she explained. “It’s a reminder that the most beautiful relationships grow through care, patience, and the joy of nurturing something lasting together.”
Building Bridges in a Blended Family
Heather’s anniversary celebration reflects the successful blended family dynamic she and Tarek have created with their children. The couple shares a 2-year-old son, Tristan, while Heather has embraced her role as stepmother to Taylor, 15, and Brayden, 10.
Recent revelations show the couple’s commitment to maintaining their strong relationship through professional guidance. In a recent Fox News Digital interview, Heather shared that she and Tarek attend couples therapy together. “Tarek and I are in couples therapy, which I’m not ashamed to say,” she revealed. “I think couples therapy, and therapy in general, can be a beautiful thing.”
She emphasized their approach to partnership: “In the end, we’re two completely different people that are just trying to grow together, grow individually, raise happy, healthy little humans, and be the best versions of ourselves.”
