Hilaria Baldwin posts heartfelt message to Alec’s daughter Ireland after she slammed ‘narcissistic’ family
Hilaria Baldwin shared a gushing post dedicated to her stepdaughter Ireland Baldwin just one day after the 30-year-old publicly blasted her ‘narcissistic’ family members.
The yoga instructor, 41, who is married to Ireland’s father Alec Baldwin, 67, posted to Instagram in honor of Ireland’s 30th birthday on Thursday, October 23.
In the post, Baldwin wrote how much she ‘cherishes’ her bond with Ireland and called her the ‘best sister’ to her and Alec’s seven young children.
‘Happy birthday [Ireland] 
. How lucky we are that we have you and how in awe I always am at your wisdom, strength, resilience,’ she began.
‘You are funny and smart…and you are the best mama, sister…friend, daughter. I cherish our relationship 
. You are so supportive and a true light in all of our lives.’
Signaling that all is well between her and Ireland, Hilaria revealed that the birthday girl decided to celebrate with her and the kids on Thursday.
Hilaria Baldwin shared a gushing post dedicated to her stepdaughter Ireland Baldwin just one day after the 30-year-old publicly blasted her ‘narcissistic’ family members
The yoga instructor, 41, who is married to Ireland’s father Alec Baldwin , 67, posted to Instagram on Thursday in honor of Ireland’s 30th birthday
‘We love you so very much and it was so meaningful to celebrate with you today,’ she concluded.
Along with her heartfelt words, Hilaria included a selfie of her and Ireland as well as photos taken during her party with family.
Hilaria and Ireland looked very happy to be in each other’s company as they pressed their faces together for the selfie.
Many of the photos featured Ireland’s two-year-old daughter Holland, who is just a few months younger than Hilaria and Alec’s youngest daughter Ilaria, three.
Holland is Ireland’s only child with her longtime boyfriend RAC, who made a cameo in one photo Hilaria snapped of him playing around with Holland and Ilaria.
Missing from the photos was Alec, who welcomed Ireland during his marriage to fellow Hollywood icon, Kim Basinger, 71.
Just two days before ringing in her 30th birthday, Ireland shocked fans by airing out her ‘narcissistic’ and ‘poisonous’ family members in a scathing social media post.
Ireland looked back on her 20s in a Substack entry entitled ’30, Flirty and Surviving’ – which contained the telling subhead, ‘Turning 30, reflecting, and dodging my family of narcissists.’
Along with her heartfelt words, Hilaria included a selfie of her and Ireland as well as photos taken during her party with family
In the piece, Ireland said she has relinquished the weight of her ‘narcissistic, unreliable, addict family members’.
‘I move into 30 with a lot less weight on my shoulders. This weight that was brought on by the need to continue to carry my narcissistic, unreliable, addict family members who I thought I needed in my life,’ the post stated, without naming the specific people.
‘I grew up without two parents in my home and no siblings to turn to. I had a lonely childhood at times which is why I grew up feeling like I needed to win over certain people in my own family.’
Ireland said the realization of their toxicity was a liberating experience.
‘For whatever reason, their validation and praise was meaningful to me. Nothing was more freeing than finally realizing how poisonous these people are. So I inch into my thirties with an understanding that this is how you break these cycles.
‘My daughter doesn’t have to know these people and I can protect her from them. I can do my very best to construct my own idea of a family, piece by piece. And show how a real family treats one another.’
Ireland did not reveal who the specific family members were.
She has, however, had a publicly strained relationship with her father after he infamously left her a voice message calling her a ‘thoughtless little pig’ when she was just 11-years-old – a relationship which has since improved.
Many of the photos featured Ireland’s two-year-old daughter Holland, who is just a few months younger than Hilaria and Alec’s youngest daughter Ilaria, three
Holland is Ireland’s only child with her longtime boyfriend RAC, who made a cameo in one photo Hilaria snapped of him playing around with Holland and Ilaria
Signaling that all is well between her and Ireland, Hilaria revealed that the birthday girl decided to celebrate with her and the kids on Thursday
Missing from the photos was Alec, who welcomed Ireland during his marriage to fellow Hollywood icon, Kim Basinger, 71; Alec seen in May 2025
The Substack entry indicated she would be shielding her two-year-old daughter Holland from the ‘poisonous’ family members, and she has introduced her child to her parents, suggesting she wasn’t referring to her mother and father in the post.
The Daily Mail has reached out to representatives for Alec, Ireland, and Kim for comment but did not immediately hear back.
Ireland’s parents split in 2002 after nine years of marriage and her father has since remarried and welcomed seven more children with wife Hilaria Baldwin. Kim, meanwhile, has been dating boyfriend Mitch Stone for 11 years.
In 2007, when Ireland was only 11, Alec left her a scathing message in which he branded her a ‘rude, thoughtless little pig’ after she missed a phone call from him that she had known was coming.
The notorious 2007 voicemail from Alec came in the wake of his bitter divorce and custody battle with Ireland’s mother.
Kim denied leaking the recording and her representative said in a statement that ‘the voicemail was not sealed under a court order.’
Ireland has learned to laugh at the incident, as in a 2015 Instagram photo she posted of her and Alec reading a children’s book called If I Were A Pig.
Just two days before ringing in her 30th birthday, Ireland shocked fans by airing out her ‘narcissistic’ and ‘poisonous’ family members in a scathing social media post; Alec and Ireland in 2009
Ireland is the daughter of Kim Basinger and Alec Baldwin, who divorced in 2002
Ireland did not reveal who the ‘poisonous’ family members were, but she did publicly endure a strained relationship with her father
‘If I Were A Pig… I would be Rude and Thoughtless of course!’ captioned Ireland, adding a snout emoji for good measure.
During a Spike roast of her father in 2017, Ireland once again ribbed him about the voicemail, saying she and Alec ‘are in a much better place now. He would never say something like that – because I’m 6’2″ and I would kick his a**.’
Alec’s infamous voice message recently resurfaced after Ireland excluded him from a Father’s Day post, which featured her partner RAC and his father Arménio Anjos.
Ireland and RAC share daughter Holland and they now live in Oregon.
