When Erin Napier took to Instagram on September 24 to celebrate her husband Ben’s 42nd birthday, fans expected sweet words. But what they got was a heartfelt, playful, and even a little steamy confession that left her followers grinning — and blushing. The HGTV star didn’t just mark the occasion; she created a moment that perfectly captured the love story she’s been living for 16 years.
A Birthday Tribute with a Twist
The Home Town star, 40, has never been shy about sharing glimpses of her marriage, but this birthday tribute stood out. Erin posted an Instagram Reel filled with snapshots of Ben, from casual moments to silly poses, reminding fans just how much joy he brings into her life. The post quickly turned into what she described as a “Ben Napier appreciation post,” where she let her followers in on why she feels she’s “the luckiest” woman alive.
“It’s time for a Ben Napier appreciation post because today is his 42nd birthday!” Erin wrote. “I am the luckiest to belong to this giant of a man who makes every day feel like Christmas, who carries us all on his shoulders and also makes sexy faces for every wardrobe photo with me.”
That cheeky line about his “sexy faces” sparked laughter and swoons from fans alike, proving once again that the couple’s chemistry is as strong as ever.
Behind the Photos and the Love Story
The reel included a mix of moments that painted a picture of Ben’s everyday charm. Erin shared shots of him reading outdoors under palm trees, lugging bags through the airport, steering a boat with one of their daughters in his arms, and of course, those wardrobe photos where his playful “sexy faces” shined through.
Adding to the fun, she paired the video with Gene Autry’s “Here Comes Santa Claus,” a playful nod to Ben’s iconic beard that’s become his signature look.
But beneath the humor and lightheartedness, Erin’s words carried depth. Sixteen years into marriage, with two young daughters — Helen, 7, and Mae, 4 — the Napiers continue to show the world that their bond is built on both laughter and resilience.
Love in the Spotlight
For years, Erin and Ben have been fan favorites on HGTV, co-starring in Home Town and Home Town Takeover. Their on-screen warmth and genuine affection for each other have been central to their success. But what makes their story even more captivating is how openly they share real-life milestones with their fans.
Just last month, the roles were reversed when Ben celebrated Erin’s 40th birthday with his own heartfelt Instagram post. He honored her with a carousel of photos and a glowing caption: “40! Celebrating my girl! The queen of the blonde beach babes! The one my girls look to and look like! Happy birthday @erinapier!!”
These tributes show a beautiful pattern — both Erin and Ben never miss an opportunity to remind the world, and each other, just how grateful they are for the life they’ve built together.
Erin on Aging and Embracing Life
As Erin approached her milestone birthday in August, she took a moment to reflect publicly on aging. On Instagram Stories, she posted a barefaced selfie, writing candidly: “Y’all, are we out here caring about forehead wrinkles? I’m turning 40 this month and I think… we should all decide we don’t care.”
Her refreshingly honest words resonated with many of her followers. In an industry where perfection is often staged, Erin’s willingness to embrace life as it is — wrinkles, joy, struggles, and all — made her birthday message to Ben all the more genuine.
A Marriage That Keeps Inspiring
Sixteen years of marriage, two children, multiple TV shows, and countless renovations later, Erin and Ben Napier remain one of the most beloved couples on television. What sets them apart is not just their talent for transforming homes, but their ability to celebrate the small, everyday details of life — a silly face in a photo, a song that brings a laugh, or a candid confession on social media.
With every tribute they post, the Napiers remind fans that true love thrives in authenticity. Erin’s latest birthday confession to Ben was playful, heartfelt, and undeniably romantic — a perfect reflection of their journey together.
And if one thing is clear, it’s this: at 42, Ben Napier isn’t just loved by fans for his craftsmanship and charm. To Erin, he’s still the man who makes every day feel like Christmas, the father who carries their family on his shoulders, and the husband who can make her blush with just a smile.
As Erin put it best, she’s the luckiest — and judging by their fans’ reactions, millions of people couldn’t agree more.
